Trolls + Other Goobers

Hey so if you aren't asexual and you don't support/understand what asexuality is, please do not come into this subreddit and harass people. Also, don't tell us that we aren't asexual or that our definition is wrong, especially when YOURS is wrong. Okay I said what I needed to thank youu

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Asexual rights matter, let’s keep it goin
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Can you have a chemistry with a person that is not sexual?


Ok sooo, i always thought the word ‘’ chemistry ‘’ meant getting along with someone well. It could be either as friendship, romantic, all of the above.

But i have noticed that ppl only talk abt sexual chemistry, which idk if i have been thinking ‘’ chemistry ‘’ wrong or if i am right and there is just different types of ‘’ chemistry ‘’ That is just over looked in a way ( i only no the chemistry science class from royale high campus 2. Soooooo yeh )


Soooo yeah, as i said, can asexuals experience a chemistry towards a person without the chemistry being sexual?


I would like to know if its possible

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What neuron?
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Sex repulsed and no kinks

Is anyone here sex repulsed without any kinks of any sort? Even amongst sex repulsed people I've met elsewhere seem to be very kinky and I'm the odd one out. I've never experienced a kink in my life and I highly doubt I ever will.

I'm isolated already due to being autistic and adamantly childfree.

In conclusion I'm a nightmare concoction of undesirable traits 😢

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y’all are gonna love this one
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Now the hallways echo with silence
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I'm taking recommendations
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Anyone just annoyed that sex is everywhere?

?

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Placiosexuality

Would someone please help me understand why placiosexuality is on the asexual spectrum? Because it sounds like it involves sexual attraction, or at least is consistent with someone who is allosexual.

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Is it weird to feel like not coming out because it isn't important or will do anything?



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I NEED ASEXUAL FRIENDS

What the title says. I need more like minded people in my life. Message meeeeeeeeeee. I’m a 29 y.o. Male for context, and have absolutely no desire for sex. I don’t care what your gender is, message me!!

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Maybe it's just commitment issues after all... or not?

I desire (almost) everything about a romantic relationship; the affection, the intimacy, etc. - everything except for the actual romance. In my ideal relationship, the other person doesn't have romantic feelings for me and I won't have romantic feelings for them. We'd never say we were dating, and if someone asks we'd say we're friends, and then kiss right after just to confuse the hell out of people.

I guess to most people it would sound like I just have fear of commitment, but idk why that would be the case because you need commitment for every kind of relationship, whether romantic, platonic, or even familial. I just don't like romantic commitment, I will admit that. On top of that, my brain simply doesn't register affection as romantic, which could be a sign that I am aro after all since as such I basically lack a "romance folder", so affection and stuff gets sorted into the "friendship folder" instead.

I don't have fear of commitment. I just don't like the romantic kind of commitment and am just an affectionate aromantic.

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man i was just tryna take a silly quiz and instead i get whiplash
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How do you define intimacy?

I was talking to my therapist about how I feel like I’ve had a lack of intimate relationships in the past. Then, she asked me if I had ever had sex before.

I had no idea how that was relevant, and I found the question quite inappropriate in the moment. Is it just an allo thing to think of intimacy as just sex? When I think of intimacy, I think of all the deep, vulnerable conversations I’ve had with other people. I think it’s about letting your guard down, which I guess to some people means sex? I don’t know what do you think?

Edit: Also, do you think intimacy only applies to people in romantic relationships, or can friends be intimate too?

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sex indifferent?? something else?

i’m F and used to consider myself sex repulsed but now it’s indifference. i’ve never had sex before, i think mainly of insecurity reasons. i also can’t picture myself having sex, it freaks me out. but i read and watch a lot of smutty things mainly i would read smut manga and manhwa. even though they’re just fictional characters, idk why i’m drawn to it lol. same thing if i were to watch porn, i mainly watch hentai which i feel disgusted to admit. idk if some of you have felt the same. i feel like a freak who only gets off to animated characters

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As a fellow ace, I support this dude's way of thinking
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I made a meme
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When the fandom doesn't respect the ace characters
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I just need to get this out of my system because, what the hell?

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