If Adam & Eve were ace:

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I made aro and ace pride rings

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Fictoromantic?

Hello everyone :)

So I always thought that I was asexual (or gray maybe), but not aromantic, because I always wanted a romantic relationship. But I guess that's wrong, because aromantic doesn't mean "not wanting a romantic relationship" but rather "not having romantic feelings towards other people", right?

Now I found the term "fictosexual/fictoromantic" and that's exactly how I feel. I've only ever fallen in love or been attracted to fictional characters. I've had a few relationships with real people and some were even good, but it never felt quite right. I don't think I've ever been in love with any of my ex boyfriends.

So I'm kinda confused now. I guess, fictosexual and fictoromantic are the terms that best describe my feelings. But does that mean I'm not aro/ace? Because technically I do feel romantic and sexual attraction, just not towards real people. But I've also seen fictosexual as a microlabel under the umbrella of asexuality, so I'm confused now.

Also, as I said in the beginning, I really want a real life romantic relationship. But apparently I can't fall in love with real people. Seems like an impossible problem. Anyone else feel that way?

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‘’ YoUr MiSsInG out-‘’NO…YOU ARE MISSING OUT

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Sex is overrated, but so is garlic bread. Cheese fries supremacy ✊️✊️✊️✊️
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Can we cuddle forever? (Poem)

And if it’s just us— two loners stuck in the monotony of “I love you”s— I won’t mind. I’d align every star just to catch a glance of you.

A midnight, as we pass through the crowd, others steal their giggles, while we lean into silence. And in that silence, our heartbeats catch a rhythm— and I listen, endlessly, or until we end.

Don’t let your lips claim mine tonight. This innocent breeze kisses us better. That kiss you left on my forehead— it’s the only delight I know. So hold onto me, still. Let shame belong to those who stare, and love to us.

Oh, nothing says “I want you” like your iris nearly escaping your eyes at my sight. And nothing says “I’m here” like your hums to my nonsense.

And if you leave—no grudges held. But if you stay— Oh, I’m in dandelions, braiding dandelions or peonies or forget-me-nots, or none at all. Peony loops on our wrists — soft proof we chose each other. Who needs rings when love already fits?

I won’t be your shadow. I’ll be half of you.

Something whispers in this rain: Would you and I be there when the butterflies settle in? Would you and I be there when the bubble bursts? Would you and I ever be us?

Look into my eyes and tell me— Would you let me collapse on your shoulder in the metro? Would you wrap your arms around me when I come back home, tired of myself? When I return, hating the world, would you shut me up with your warmth? Would you be my comfort? Would you compensate for the me I lost trying to become yours?

I don’t believe in “love you”s anymore. Would you say it still—if you trusted me?

When tomorrow comes, and ego fills the room, when lips—those liars— lose the courage to say “I love you,” would you see the love etched in my eyes instead?

I can’t promise you all giggles. But if we cry— we’ll cry together at His threshold, not in shrines that disown us.

I want you. Lay your head on my chest. Shut your mind. So… can we cuddle forever?

Peony by Lovish.

Special thanks to: Zephyr and Buddy

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I'm married to my job
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Being a sex-repulsed lesbian sometimes feels isolating—anyone else feel this?

I’m a lesbian who’s sex repulsed, and while I’m confident in my identity, there are days it just feels… impossible to find someone who truly understands.

Dating apps can be overwhelming and discouraging, especially when people equate desire with physical intimacy.

Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever find a partner who sees and values intimacy in the ways I do.

If this resonates with you at all, I’d love to hear how you navigate it.


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Are my relationships going to fall apart because I’m asexual?

I’m not currently in a relationship, but I really want to have one. The dates, the special connection, it’s all so amazing. Except for the sex part. After looking through people’s experiences, most people in relationships expect to have sex, but I find that part disgusting and I’m very turned off by it. After talking to my mom about this, she said “sexless relationships always fall apart…all men want sex (she thinks I’m straight), etc”. So now I’m scared that I’ll never be able to have a romantic relationship because I’m asexual.

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"Actually it's a euphemism for-" that's great, I'll still choose to interpret it as being about death/food/etc
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Im currently trying not to cry because i got myself into a sexual situation and i felt nothing.

I should’ve said no to him, but i didn’t because i thought i was attracted to him. and deep down inside i wanted to see if i actually felt sexual attraction. but the whole time we were on call i was trying not to have a breakdown because i felt so disgusted. i thought maybe once i could finally feel how others feel when they described sexual attraction..my hands are shaking and my private area hurts. im really trying not to cry

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I wanted to share this post I found
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I felt seen!!!!

I have an Ace pin on the dash of my car. I gave my coworker a ride and she asked me if I was Ace when she saw it. HOLY HECK BATMAN 😁🤗🖤💜🤍🩶

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Tried out an LGBTQ quiz
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