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Men introvert emasman. Men tinchlikni sevaman..

Ko‘p yillar davomida o‘zimni “introvert” deb o‘ylab yurardim. Har safar biror yig‘inda boshim og‘rib ketsa, odamlar bilan uzoq muloqotdan charchasam, yolg‘izlikni tanlasam — buni o‘zimdagi tabiiy ichki yopiq holat deb qabul qilardim. O‘ylardimki, men shunchaki introvertman. Men odamlar orasida emas, yolg‘izlikda quvvat olaman, deb o‘ylardim.

Ammo bugun bu fikr ustida jiddiy o‘ylab qoldim. Chunki bor gap shundaki, men yolg‘izlikni emas — xotirjamlikni sevaman. O‘zimni ochib, erkin gapirib, kulib, quvnoq bo‘lib yuradigan paytlarim ham bo‘lgan. Faqat bu holatlar bir shart bilan bo‘lgan: atrofimdagi odamlar bilan ko‘nglim tinch bo‘lsa.

Men faqat xotirjamlik hadya qiladigan odamlar orasida ochilaman. Ular bilan gaplashish — ruhiy og‘irlik emas, balki quvvat. Ularning yonida o‘zimni yashirishimga, ro‘kach qilishimga hojat yo‘q. Ularning yonida men o‘zimni erkin his qilishim mumkin.

Shunda tushundim: men introvert emasman. Men shunchaki tinchlikni sevaman. Va aynan shu tinchlikni olib keladigan odamlar borligiga ishonaman. Ehtimol, siz ham xuddi shunday his qilayotgandirsiz. Siz yolg‘izlikni emas — ichki osoyishtalikni izlayotgandirsiz.

Demak, sizga odamlar kerak emas degani emas bu. Sizga to‘g‘ri odamlar kerak. Tinchlik olib keladigan odamlar.

Sizga tinchlik olib keladigan odamlar hayotingizda bormi?
Yoki hanuzgacha shovqindan charchab, yolg‘izlikni tinchlik deb o‘ylaysizmi?

Ba’zida eng katta tinchlik — o‘zingizni yashirmasdan, olib qochmasdan turishingiz mumkin bo‘lgan insonlar oldida topiladi.
Ularni toping. Ular bilan qoling.
Yoki... kim biladi, balki avvalo o‘zingizga tinchlik bera olishni o‘rganishingiz kerakdir?..

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Men introvert emasman. Men tinchlikni sevaman..

Ko‘p yillar davomida o‘zimni “introvert” deb o‘ylab yurardim. Har safar biror yig‘inda boshim og‘rib ketsa, odamlar bilan uzoq muloqotdan charchasam, yolg‘izlikni tanlasam — buni o‘zimdagi tabiiy ichki yopiq holat deb qabul qilardim. O‘ylardimki, men shunchaki introvertman. Men odamlar orasida emas, yolg‘izlikda quvvat olaman, deb o‘ylardim.

Ammo bugun bu fikr ustida jiddiy o‘ylab qoldim. Chunki bor gap shundaki, men yolg‘izlikni emas — xotirjamlikni sevaman. O‘zimni ochib, erkin gapirib, kulib, quvnoq bo‘lib yuradigan paytlarim ham bo‘lgan. Faqat bu holatlar bir shart bilan bo‘lgan: atrofimdagi odamlar bilan ko‘nglim tinch bo‘lsa.

Men faqat xotirjamlik hadya qiladigan odamlar orasida ochilaman. Ular bilan gaplashish — ruhiy og‘irlik emas, balki quvvat. Ularning yonida o‘zimni yashirishimga, ro‘kach qilishimga hojat yo‘q. Ularning yonida men o‘zimni erkin his qilishim mumkin.

Shunda tushundim: men introvert emasman. Men shunchaki tinchlikni sevaman. Va aynan shu tinchlikni olib keladigan odamlar borligiga ishonaman. Ehtimol, siz ham xuddi shunday his qilayotgandirsiz. Siz yolg‘izlikni emas — ichki osoyishtalikni izlayotgandirsiz.

Demak, sizga odamlar kerak emas degani emas bu. Sizga to‘g‘ri odamlar kerak. Tinchlik olib keladigan odamlar.

Sizga tinchlik olib keladigan odamlar hayotingizda bormi?
Yoki hanuzgacha shovqindan charchab, yolg‘izlikni tinchlik deb o‘ylaysizmi?

Ba’zida eng katta tinchlik — o‘zingizni yashirmasdan, olib qochmasdan turishingiz mumkin bo‘lgan insonlar oldida topiladi.
Ularni toping. Ular bilan qoling.
Yoki... kim biladi, balki avvalo o‘zingizga tinchlik bera olishni o‘rganishingiz kerakdir?..

🖋 @susambil_lik

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